Establishing a routine and following it isn't easy: but it WILL reap major results.
I'm 28 and just starting to embrace routine. I've been rebellious and reallllly stubborn most of my life, and resisted calendars and schedules because I felt suffocated. I recently decided that whatever I was doing wasn't working-I had no time for myself, and always felt exhausted and pulled in a million directions. I figured I had nothing to lose by trying a scheduled routine.
I was as shocked as you are at the immense relief I felt and the way it changed my life.
Now, I rise at 7 am for some yoga, coffee, reading and mindset work. I get to breathe in the first morning light right alongside my pup, and we get lots of bonding and cuddle time. I also have enough time to get ready for the day, which is critical to my sanity since I work from home. By beginning my morning in this way, rather than snoozing until my first meeting, I'm able to settle into my work calmly and energized when 9 am rolls around. Side note: No, I'm not perfect. Every day doesn't start this way - but the ones that do feel that much more magical.
Evenings have their vibes, which for me is much more flexible. I do try to end and begin the day with a book, rather than my phone, and I take a few moments to use my favorite face oil and slip into my most comfortable pajamas.
What have I learned? If you are able to organize your day around your routine, you'll be better prepped for anything the Universe sends your way. Whether your routine is simple or complex, let yourself dive into the ritual. The act of doing can be peaceful in itself, and a source of calm continuity when life can so often feel volatile.
Going into your morning or evening routine with the right attitude is everything. Don't see this as another to-do on your never-ending list. Instead, learn to value this time as unapologetically yours, and relish every moment. It certainly makes getting up a few minutes earlier much easier to bear! On that note, if you're not into it, don't try to force it in your routine. Going to the gym has never worked at getting me out of bed in the morning. Books? Absolutely.
Tell me in the comments: what does your routine look like?